I want to spend the rest of my life with her... so should I tell my girlfriend I kissed a few other girls?

DEAR COLEEN;

I’m 19, my girlfriend is 21, and we’ve been together for nearly two years.
I love her so much, but I’ve kissed a few other girls while I’ve been with her and she knows two of them.

Nothing has been said as they were both drunken snogs, but I feel guilty every day.

I want to spend the rest of my life with her. What should I do?

Coleen says..

In this case, I think you should keep quiet about what happened. But you’ve got to promise yourself that you’ll never get so drunk that you do it again.

You need to find that limit with drink so you don’t do something stupid.

I don’t think you’ll achieve anything by coming clean to your girlfriend. Because you’re finding it hard to live with the guilt, you think telling her will just make your life easier.

You’d be passing the buck – after all, you won’t have to feel guilty any more if she knows, right?

Look, you’re only 19 and we’ve all done silly things at that age.

If you love this girl, put it behind you and make a deal with yourself that you won’t do it again.

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